In the beginning, life was not easy with you and Chiz. There was a conflict between my mom, dad, and Chiz. I’m not going to go into details, but okay, let’s go there.

What was that about? It wasn’t just with Chiz; it was throughout my life. I think it’s because now that I’m where I am today, I understand better. For them, even if it went beyond, it was about loving their daughter.

Now that I’ve seen the world, I realize the importance of those experiences.

However, I couldn’t possibly fast forward the chapters of my life and not have gone through what I felt I needed at that time. The conflict was about a mother’s love, a father’s love. How did Chiz win them over?

It was like fighting a war without actually fighting it. He wasn’t the only one I lost; I lost a lot of great people in my life because I chose my parents’ happiness. I felt like I was being a good daughter by doing that.

But Chiz’s maturity, wisdom, and life experiences set him apart from everybody else. He was quiet, he didn’t rebel, and he waited for time to heal all wounds.

He was patient, transparent, and genuine. When people see my life, they know that story. Mom and dad came to the house and things started to change. Yes, he left the house first, but it was very nice. That’s how it should be. You can win a war without really fighting it by waiting for the right time. I’m so happy because everything is okay today. Everything is happy and in place.