Heart Evangelista and Chiz Escudero

Heart Evangelista speaks about how she and Senator Chiz Escudero fixed the way they communicate to each other in order to deal with conflicts in their marriage.
PHOTO/S: Rachelle Siazon / @iamhearte Instagram

Inamin ni Heart Evangelista, 39, na may pagkakataon sa buhay-mag-asawa nila ni Senator Chiz Escudero, 54, na hindi sila nagkakaintindihan.

Ipinaliwanag ng aktres na malaking factor ang kanilang age gap kaya noong nagsisimula pa lang ang kanilang relasyon ay mas si Chiz ang nasusunod sa kanilang relasyon.

Sinabi ito ni Heart sa GCash Spotlight interview ni Heart sa TV host na si Boy Abunda, na bahagi ng media launch para sa paglunsad kay Heart bilang ambassador ng mobile payments service app.

Ginanap ang event, na dinaluhan ng PEP.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal), piling press at influencers, sa Shooting Gallery Studios sa Makati City noong Huwebes, February 8, 2024.

Tanong ni Boy kay Heart, “When do you guys know when to listen and when to speak?”

“I used to be very mute before because I trust him a lot,” pag-amin ni Heart.

Kung may hindi man sila pagkakasunduan, hindi raw nababago ang sitwasyon dahil hindi niya nasasabi ang saloobin niya.

“Before I would just listen to him until I kinda grew up as well. I was 30 when I married him.

“But we’re ever changing. We’re ever evolving.”

Dumating daw sa puntong nagkakaroon sila ng hindi pagkakaunawaan.

“So there was a time we kinda clashed.

“I saw this thing on Instagram, it says, ‘Why do people scream at each other? It’s because even if they’re so close to each other, they can’t hear each other.’

“So, I think there was a time it was like that.”

Natuto raw si Heart na panindigan ang sarili.

“But I found my voice. I think I went over and beyond a little bit.

“But now, there are a lot of things that happen in a marriage that when he needs to speak, I listen. And when I need to speak, he listens.

“There’s no more debate kasi he’s a lawyer. Hindi ka talaga mananalo,” napapangiting pag-amin ni Heart.

Sabi pa niya, “Before, walkout talaga ako.

“Now he listens, and I love it because we understand each other.”

Walang eksaktong petsang binanggit si Heart, pero noong August to December 2022, makailang-beses naging tampok ng espekulasyon ang napabalitang marital problem nina Heart and Chiz.