My husband and I are having trouble because my parents just gave me land, and my husband made me do this right away.

My parents gave me land, but before I could be happy, I immediately received my husband’s request to sell the land to buy a car.

I am 30 years old and have been married for 5 years. My marriage is relatively peaceful because both my husband and I live by the motto that everything is based on constructiveness, for the sake of our children and each other, we overlook each other’s small mistakes. Both my husband and I have stable incomes and a stable family economy.

We lived separately right after getting married with the support of both families, mainly my parents who gave most of the money. Loving their daughter, my parents also occasionally gave me a large sum of money to relieve my financial pressure. My husband is an active and hard-working person, I don’t have to worry much about his business.

My husband is 2 years older than me, he is mature, responsible in his work and with his relatives. My husband’s life is quite simple, he doesn’t have many relationships or friends outside, so I trust him very much. The only thing that makes me wonder and worry about my husband is that every summer, he is very eager to go to reunions with his old classmates.

I thought my marriage would be smooth, but unexpectedly it suddenly encountered a storm. A month ago, my parents divided the land among their children. I got a piece of land in the center of the district, so it was very valuable. My husband and I were very happy, having a large amount of assets, my husband and I would have less trouble in the future, and be able to take better care of our children.

The happy story suddenly turned into a sad story, and the conflict between husband and wife arose from there. My parents had just completed the procedure to transfer the land to their daughter, and my husband immediately had the idea of ​​buying a billion-dollar car. He insisted that his wife sell the land and buy a car even though my family’s travel needs were not high.

He gave the excuse that he often had to go back to his hometown, and that almost all of his close friends had cars… No matter how I advised him, he got angry and resentful towards his wife because I did not agree to sell the land and give him money to buy a car. The climax of the argument was when my husband accused me of deliberately keeping the land as my personal property, and that he did not benefit from the land being given to him by his wife’s parents.

My husband even challenged me to divorce him, even without any reason. Every day I saw him go out drinking until late at night, and when he came home to see his wife, he would say harsh words, challenging her to divorce him. I felt tired even though I had done nothing wrong to my husband.

Faced with my husband’s negative attitude, I was sad and also started to think about giving in to him. But I accidentally heard my husband calling his parents. He insisted that he wanted his wife to sell the land to buy a car in order to appropriate the money. If he bought the car, the property would be the joint property of both husband and wife, and he would have full rights to use it.

Every day, my husband’s parents call me to urge me to follow my husband’s wishes. They even threaten that if I don’t follow them, my husband will divorce me. I am very tired of my husband causing trouble and speaking harshly to me. The family was peaceful, but now it is on the verge of collapse. What should I do to make my husband respect my decisions about my parents’ property? Should I follow my husband’s wishes to keep the family peaceful? Please give me some advice!