Shocked to discover mother-in-law frequently visits son’s lover’s house

Husband had an affair, wife was shocked to know that mother-in-law stood behind and supported her son to do reprehensible things.

My marriage was going well, but I never expected that one day I would receive a series of shocks. First was my husband, he suddenly changed his personality over the past year, no longer caring about his wife and children. He also rarely gave his wife money, and used one excuse after another to ask for money from her. Luckily my business was doing well, otherwise the family would always be in need.

I found out that my husband was having an affair, he had someone else without me knowing. It was like a bolt from the blue, the husband I loved and pampered so much had betrayed his wife and children. He secretly had an affair, while the family was peaceful and happy. He took the family’s money to support someone else.

Suffering, tormenting myself for being stupid, trusting my husband too much, only to be betrayed by him one day. After days of struggling because of being hurt, I just wanted to get a divorce immediately but then kept calm thanks to the encouragement of some relatives and friends. Listening to their words, I secretly followed my husband to know who he was having an affair with, where he lived…

Finally I got the result, my husband was having an affair with a young woman, only about 25 years old. She and my husband have a child together who just turned 1 year old. But the strange thing is that my mother-in-law often appears at her son’s lover’s house. My mother-in-law shows concern and affection for her and her child, often buying gifts and giving money.

I was very sad and shocked that both my mother-in-law and my husband had done wrong things behind my back. My mother-in-law should have advised her son not to do things that would affect the family, but instead she went to see her and her son. When I asked my mother-in-law for clarification, she coldly replied: ” The child is my grandchild after all, the eldest grandson of this family. You don’t know how to give birth, so if someone else does it for you, you have to accept it .”

My mother-in-law’s harsh words made me even more heartbroken. With her like that, who could I rely on to mend our family? Yet I even wanted to ask my mother-in-law to intervene, to get my husband to leave the outsider and return to his wife and children. Now I know everything, my mother-in-law shows affection for the outsider, treating her daughter-in-law like a stranger.

My mother-in-law also threatened that if I did not accept my husband’s affair and having a child, I would get a divorce. She would take her and her child home to be my official daughter-in-law, replacing me. As for my husband, he was also indifferent, as if nothing had happened. Every time the matter of the outsider was mentioned, he would find a way to avoid it, or say unconstructive things.

My husband is having an affair and has a child. What should I do now when his family does not support me? Should I be patient, find a way to get my husband back with his wife and children, or get a divorce? Please give me some advice!