In Toni Gonzaga’s recent vlog titled “What Alden Is Tired Hearing About,” Asia’s Multimedia Star mentioned that, at this point, he simply lets people believe what they want.
“Sa tingin niyo bading, fine,” Alden said.
“Ang iniisip ko nga minsan, kapag may ganu’ng mga rumors, wala na bang iba?” he added.
Alden said it’s easy for people to judge a celebrity’s gender identity, especially for men when they’re not in a relationship.
“‘Yung judgment sa gender ng mga kalalakihan sa industriya natin is ang dali because of that fact,” he said.
Alden said he no longer answers rumors because he’s contended with his life.
“I’m happy, perfectly happy with what I have, what I’m able to do at the moment, I seize every opportunity, sayang eh, there’s time for that (love life),” he said.
The Kapuso star recently marked his 32nd birthday with a dapper photoshoot.
He also starred in a movie with Julia Montes titled “Five Breakups and A Romance,” as well as in a Metro Manila Film Festival entry, “Family of Two” with Sharon Cuneta.
While it’s not unusual for public figures to face rumors, the level of intrusion into someone’s personal life can be overwhelming, especially when these rumors are based on assumptions rather than facts.
For Alden, who is a private person, the constant speculation can be mentally and emotionally draining.
His frustration is understandable—when a person works hard to build a career based on talent and dedication, it can feel unfair when their identity is reduced to mere gossip.
From a broader perspective, Alden’s situation reflects a larger societal issue: the obsession with the personal lives of celebrities. In many cultures, public figures are expected to meet certain standards, whether it’s in terms of their romantic relationships, their personal choices, or their appearance.
This often leads to intense scrutiny, which can be damaging to a person’s mental health and well-being. In Alden’s case, the rumors about his sexuality are just one example of this invasive attention.
It’s important to remember that an individual’s sexual orientation is a deeply personal matter, and it should be respected without judgment.
Moreover, Alden’s openness about feeling tired of the rumors speaks to a larger issue of how people should be allowed to live their lives without being constantly judged or dissected.In the age of social media, where everyone is a click away from the latest gossip, the pressure on celebrities to conform to the public’s expectations has intensified.
Alden’s situation highlights the importance of allowing individuals, especially public figures, the space to define themselves without being subjected to unwarranted speculation.
Alden’s success as an actor and his connection with his fans should speak for themselves. His talent, work ethic, and personality are what matter most, and it is unfortunate that these constant rumors continue to overshadow his achievements.
Hopefully, as the public becomes more aware of the damaging effects of rumors and speculation, we can create a more respectful environment where celebrities, like Alden, are allowed to live their lives free from unnecessary judgment and scrutiny.
