That may leave down the damn way because it in exalted through that grace gives himself. So just think do you think people like me are broken for loving I can love you and disagree with you. That’s what Jesus did. The words left Jonathan Roy’s mouth with such quiet precision that Anderson Cooper physically recoiled in his chair.
his famous composure cracking on live television for the first time in his 30-year career. 18 million viewers watched as the man who portrayed Jesus Christ looked directly at one of the most respected journalists in America and spoke 11 words that would ignite a firestorm lasting months. But to understand why CNN would spend the next week in damage control and why Anderson Cooper would later admit this interview changed something fundamental in his understanding of faith. You have to rewind to the moment when a
simple conversation about a television show became the most explosive religious confrontation in cable news history. The invitation arrived through official CNN channels on a crisp Monday morning in October. Jonathan’s publicist, Sarah Mitchell, reviewed it twice before calling her client.

Her voice carrying the measured caution of someone who had learned to read between the lines of media requests. Anderson Cooper wants you for a prime time special on Faith in America. 30 minutes live broadcast. 18 million expected viewers. They are framing it as a cultural conversation about the chosen and its impact on how Americans engage with religion.
Jonathan listened from his modest Los Angeles apartment. Morning light filtering through windows that overlooked a city perpetually caught between dreams and disillusionment. The crucifix his Lebanese grandmother had carved hung on the wall beside him.
A constant reminder of roots that ran deeper than Hollywood ambition. He knew Anderson Cooper’s reputation intimately. The silver-haired journalist had built his career on rigorous reporting, unflinching interviews, and a personal story that had made him one of the most prominent gay men in American media. Anderson had spoken openly about his struggles with faith, his departure from the Catholic Church of his childhood, and his belief that organized religion had caused immeasurable harm to LGBTQ individuals like himself. This would not be a friendly conversation about behind-the-scenes moments from a popular
television series. “What is the real agenda?” Jonathan asked, his voice calm, but probing. Sarah hesitated before answering. “My contact says they want to explore how the chosen portrays Jesus compared to traditional church teachings, but reading between the lines, I think they want to press you on social issues.
” Anderson has been vocal about religious opposition to LGBTQ rights. If he gets you on record saying something that sounds intolerant, it becomes the story instead of the show. Jonathan walked to his window, watching the city below pulse with its endless energy. Millions of people pursuing millions of dreams, most of them running from questions they did not want to answer.
He had spent years preparing to portray Christ on screen. studying not only scripture but the objections raised against it, the wounds inflicted in his name, the ways his message had been distorted by those who claimed to follow him. Tell them yes. Sarah’s silence stretched for five full seconds. Jonathan, I have to advise against this. Anderson is brilliant at what he does.
He will find the angle that makes you look worst and exploit it professionally. This could undo years of goodwill you have built with mainstream audiences. Or it could reach people who would never otherwise hear the gospel presented with both truth and love. Jonathan turned from the window. His decision already made. I cannot spend my life avoiding conversations because they might be difficult.
Jesus did not avoid the Pharisees or the Romans or anyone else who wanted to trap him. He walked straight into their questions and answered with truth they could not refute. Two weeks later, Jonathan’s plane descended through gray clouds into New York City. The Manhattan skyline emerging like a forest of steel and glass, reaching toward heaven, but never quite arriving.
A CNN driver met him at LaGuardia, a quiet professional named David, who navigated traffic with the resigned efficiency of someone who had spent decades moving important people through impossible congestion. The CNN headquarters at Hudson Yards gleamed with the aggressive modernity of a network trying to prove its relevance in an age of fragmenting attention.
Security protocols rivaled government facilities with multiple checkpoints and credentials verified at every transition. Jonathan moved through the process with patient compliance. Understanding that the machinery of major media required rituals that served institutional purposes beyond simple necessity, the green room was smaller than he expected, functional rather than luxurious, designed for guests who would occupy it briefly before being consumed by the broadcast and forgotten.
A television mounted on the wall played CNN’s role in coverage. anchors discussing political developments with the practiced urgency that cable news had perfected and exhausted. A young producer named Catherine appeared with a tablet and a smile that did not quite reach her eyes. Mr. Roomie, thank you so much for being here. Anderson is really looking forward to this conversation.
She glanced at her tablet, scrolling through what Jonathan assumed were talking points and segment timings. We will start with your background, how you came to the role, the success of the chosen. Then we will move into broader questions about faith in contemporary America. Jonathan nodded, recognizing the careful vagueness that concealed sharper intentions.
Will Anderson be asking about specific social issues? Catherine’s smile flickered almost imperceptibly. He may touch on how faith communities engage with current cultural conversations. Nothing confrontational, just exploring different perspectives. The non-answer was answer enough, Jonathan thanked her and returned to his quiet preparation.
Opening his worn Bible to passages he had memorized years ago, but still needed to read before moments like this. The words of Jesus in Matthew’s Gospel spoke across centuries. as relevant now as when first uttered. Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves. So be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.
30 minutes before broadcast, a production assistant escorted Jonathan through corridors humming with the controlled chaos of live television. Technicians checked equipment. Producers whispered into headsets. Everyone moving with purpose toward a deadline that would arrive regardless of their readiness. Anderson Cooper waited in the studio, reviewing notes at his anchor desk with the focused intensity that had made him one of the most trusted journalists of his generation.
He looked up as Jonathan entered, rising to extend a handshake that was firm without being aggressive, professional without being warm. Jonathan, thank you for doing this. Anderson’s voice carried the same measured quality it held on air. Every word precisely calibrated. I have watched The Chosen. It is genuinely moving work.
We are going to have a real conversation tonight. Not just promotional softball. The warning was subtle but clear. This would not be an easy 30 minutes. Jonathan settled into the guest chair. makeup artists making final adjustments while audio technicians verified levels.
The studio lights blazed with intensity designed to eliminate shadows and expose everything to cameras that would broadcast every micro expression to 18 million homes. Anderson took his position across from Jonathan. Notes arranged with military precision. His posture conveying authority earned through decades of confronting the powerful and comforting the afflicted.
Whatever personal feelings he carried about faith and those who practiced it, he would channel them through the professional framework that had made him a broadcasting legend. The floor director raised his hand, counting down with fingers extended. 5 4 3 The red light blinked on America tuned in to witness something none of them expected. Good evening. Anderson’s voice carried through the studio with practiced authority.
Tonight we explore the phenomenon of the chosen, the crowdfunded series about Jesus Christ that has captured the attention of millions worldwide. My guest is Jonathan Roomie, the actor who portrays Jesus and has become something of a spiritual figure himself to the show’s devoted audience. He turned slightly, directing his attention toward Jonathan with the focused intensity that had become his trademark.
Jonathan, thank you for being here. Let us start with the obvious question. What is it like to play the most influential figure in human history? Jonathan smiled, settling into the rhythm of conversation he had navigated countless times before. It is humbling in ways I cannot fully articulate. Every day on set, I am reminded that I am portraying someone billions of people have built their entire lives around.
The responsibility is enormous, but it is also a privilege I never take for granted. Anderson nodded, his expression conveying genuine interest beneath the professional veneer. The show has been remarkably successful, reaching audiences that traditional religious programming never touches. Why do you think it resonates so deeply? I believe people are hungry for authenticity.
Jonathan leaned forward slightly. His passion for the subject evident. They have been given so many distorted versions of Jesus. Either the harsh judge who condemns everything or the permissive therapist who affirms everything. The chosen tries to present the Jesus of scripture who was somehow both more loving and more challenging than either extreme.
The answer was thoughtful, substantive, exactly the kind of response that made for compelling television. Anderson allowed it to land before pivoting toward deeper waters. You mentioned the Jesus of scripture. That brings up something I want to explore. Anderson’s tone shifted almost imperceptibly. the warmth cooling by several degrees because the Jesus of scripture has been used to justify some deeply harmful things throughout history. Slavery, discrimination, violence against those deemed sinners.
Jonathan recognized the setup immediately, the broad historical accusation that would narrow towards specific contemporary application. He chose his response carefully. Every great truth can be distorted by those who want to use it for their own purposes. The question is whether the distortion represents the actual teaching or contradicts it.
Jesus explicitly commanded his followers to love their enemies. Serve the least of these. Lay down their lives for others. Those who used his name to enslave and oppress were violating his words. Not following them, Anderson’s eyebrows rose slightly. acknowledging the point while preparing his counter. Fair enough. But let us talk about the present, not the past.
Because right now, today, there are millions of Christians who believe that LGBTQ individuals are sinful, disordered, condemned by God. Churches that tell gay teenagers they are abominations. families that disown their children for who they love. He paused, letting the weight of the words settle over the studio.
As someone who is gay, I have experienced this rejection personally. I have seen the damage it causes, the lives it destroys, the suicides it contributes to. How do you respond to that? The question was personal now, rooted in lived experience that could not be dismissed as abstract theological debate.
Jonathan felt the gravity of the moment. Understanding that his answer would either build a bridge or burn one. First, I am deeply sorry for the pain you have experienced and for everyone who has been wounded by people claiming to represent Christ while contradicting his character. His voice carried genuine compassion, not the performative sympathy of someone trying to deflect criticism.
No one should ever be made to feel worthless or unloved because of their struggles, whatever those struggles might be. Anderson’s expression flickered with something that might have been surprise at the directness of the acknowledgement, but Jonathan was not finished. However, I have to be honest about what I believe scripture teaches.
Even when that teaching is unpopular in contemporary culture, the Bible presents a consistent vision of human sexuality that reserves sexual expression for marriage between a man and a woman. That is not a position I invented. It is what Christians have believed for 2,000 years based on the words of Jesus himself. The temperature in the studio dropped several degrees. Anderson’s posture stiffened.
his journalistic training wrestling with personal reaction. So you believe that gay people are sinful for loving who they love. The question came sharper now. The professional distance beginning to crack. I believe all of us are sinful in various ways. And all of us need the transforming grace of Jesus Christ.
Jonathan’s voice remains steady despite the increasing pressure. My own struggles with pride, anger, lust, selfishness. These are no less serious in God’s eyes than anyone else’s struggles. The ground at the foot of the cross is level. None of us arrive there with clean hands. Anderson shook his head slowly. Frustration evident in the gesture.
That sounds like a dodge. You are comparing being gay to being prideful or angry. as if who I am is equivalent to a character flaw you are working to overcome. Jonathan held his gaze without flinching. I am saying that all of us have desires that do not align with God’s design and all of us face the same choice about whether to submit those desires to his authority or insist that he conform to ours. That is not a statement about gay people specifically.
It is a statement about the human condition universally. The exchange had accelerated beyond the careful pacing of typical cable news interviews. Both men were leaning forward now, the physical space between them shrinking as the ideological distance became more apparent. You know what this sounds like from my perspective.
Anderson’s voice carried an edge it rarely revealed on air. It sounds like sophisticated bigotry dressed in theological language. You are telling millions of LGBTQ viewers that something fundamental about who they are is broken and needs to be fixed. Jonathan absorbed the accusation without defensive reaction. Understanding that this moment would define everything that followed, his response would either confirm every negative stereotype Anderson held about Christians or offer something unexpectedly different.
Anderson, can I ask you something? Jonathan’s tone softened rather than hardened. A choice that clearly caught the journalist offg guard. A pause stretched between them before Anderson nodded cautiously. Go ahead.
Do you believe it is possible to genuinely love someone while disagreeing with them about important things? To hold convictions they find offensive while still treating them with dignity and respect. The question reframed the entire conversation, shifting from accusation and defense toward something more fundamental about the nature of love itself. Anderson studied Jonathan’s face, searching for the trap he assumed must be hiding somewhere in the inquiry.
The 18 million viewers watching from their homes leaned closer to their screens. sensing that the next few moments would determine whether this interview descended into predictable conflict or ascended towards something neither participant had anticipated when the cameras first started rolling. Anderson considered the question for a long moment.
his journalist’s instinct recognizing the rhetorical significance of whatever answer he provided. The studio lights seemed brighter. Suddenly, the cameras more intrusive. The 18 million viewers more present than they had been moments before. Of course, it is possible to love someone while disagreeing with them. He finally replied, his voice measured.
But there is a difference between disagreeing about politics or taste in music and telling someone that a fundamental aspect of their identity is sinful. One is a difference of opinion. The other is an assault on their humanity. Jonathan nodded slowly, acknowledging the distinction without accepting its framing. I understand why it feels that way, but I would gently push back on the idea that sexual orientation constitutes the totality of anyone’s identity.
You are far more than who you are attracted to. Anderson, you are a son, a father, a journalist, a friend, a seeker of truth. Reducing anyone to a single dimension of their experience diminishes rather than honors their full humanity. The observation landed with unexpected force.
Anderson’s expression shifted, something flickering behind his eyes that the cameras captured but could not interpret. He was accustomed to guests who either retreated into defensive platitudes or advanced into aggressive condemnation. This third path, engagement without surrender, challenged his prepared responses. That is a nice philosophical point.
Anderson countered recovering his footing, but it does not change the practical reality. Churches that hold your position drive young people to suicide. Studies show that LGBTQ youth who experience family rejection are eight times more likely to attempt suicide than those who are accepted. You cannot separate your theology from its consequences. The statistic was devastating, and Jonathan felt its weight press against his chest.
He had read the research, wrestled with its implications, spent countless hours in prayer over how to hold biblical conviction alongside genuine compassion for those who suffered. Those numbers break my heart, and I do not say that as a rhetorical device. Jonathan’s voice dropped lower, more intimate, as if speaking to Anderson alone rather than millions of viewers.
Every young person who takes their life because they feel unloved is a tragedy that should haunt anyone who claims to follow Jesus. He wept at the tomb of Lazarus. He would weep over every one of those deaths. He paused, gathering his thoughts before continuing. But I have to ask whether the solution to that suffering is changing what scripture teaches or changing how we communicate it.
Because I know gay Christians who hold traditional views about sexuality and have found peace, purpose, and genuine flourishing. I know others who affirmed their orientation and found the same. The path to healing is not as simple as either side wants to make it. Anderson leaned back in his chair, studying Jonathan with renewed intensity. You mentioned gay Christians who hold traditional views.
Are you saying they are celibate, that they suppress who they are to conform to a 2,000-year-old text? Some are celibate? Yes. Others are married to opposite sex spouses and describe their relationships as genuinely fulfilling. Jonathan met his gaze directly. I am not here to prescribe a single path for everyone. I am here to say that the biblical vision of sexuality while countercultural today is not the hate-filled rejection that it is often portrayed as.
It is an invitation to a different kind of flourishing than our culture offers. Anderson’s laugh carried an edge of disbelief. Flourishing. You are telling gay people that true flourishing means denying themselves love. companionship, intimacy. That sounds like a prison sentence, not an invitation. The objection was visceral, rooted in experience that theology alone could not address.
Jonathan recognized that this moment required something beyond intellectual argument. “Can I tell you about someone I know?” Jonathan asked, his tone shifting toward the personal. “His name is Michael. He grew up in a Christian home, realized he was attracted to men as a teenager, and spent years believing God hated him because of it. He attempted suicide twice before his 20th birthday.
Anderson’s expression softened involuntarily at the parallel to his own earlier point. Jonathan continued, “Michael did not find healing by abandoning his faith or by having his orientation affirmed as perfectly compatible with scripture.
He found healing by encountering a Jesus who loved him completely while calling him to something higher than his desires. He has been celibate for 15 years now. Not as a burden but as a gift he offers to the god who saved his life. The studio fell silent except for the soft hum of equipment. Anderson processed the story clearly wrestling with how to respond to testimony that contradicted his assumptions without conforming to his categories. That is one person’s story.
He finally said, “For every Michael, there are thousands who have been damaged beyond repair by the message you are describing. Churches that promise change and deliver shame. ministries that claim to cure homosexuality and leave wreckage in their wake. Those ministries were wrong, and I would condemn them without hesitation. Jonathan’s voice carried unexpected force.
Any approach that promises to change someone’s orientation through willpower or therapy misunderstands both human sexuality and the gospel itself. Jesus does not call us to become straight. He calls us to become holy. Those are not the same thing. The distinction hung in the air, challenging frameworks on both sides of the cultural divide. Anderson’s brow furrowed as he worked through the implications.
So, you are not advocating for conversion therapy or pray the gaya away programs. Absolutely not. Those approaches have caused tremendous harm and they misrepresent what biblical transformation actually means. Jonathan leaned forward with intensity. The gospel is not about modifying behavior through human effort.
It is about dying to self and being raised to new life in Christ. That process looks different for every person, and the timeline is God’s to determine, not ours to demand. Anderson shook his head slowly. Frustration evident in the gesture. You keep making these fine distinctions that sound reasonable in a theological seminar, but collapse when applied to real people’s lives.
A gay teenager watching this right now does not care about the difference between orientation change and holiness. They just hear that who they are is not acceptable to God. The accusation struck at the heart of Jonathan’s deepest concern. the gap between what he believed scripture taught and how that teaching was received by those already wounded by religious rejection.
He had no easy answer, no rhetorical maneuver that could bridge the chasm in a 30inut television segment. But he had something else, a truth that had sustained him through years of wrestling with questions that had no comfortable resolution. Anderson, I cannot control how my words are received. I can only control whether I speak them with truth and love in equal measure. Jonathan’s voice carried a weight that made the journalist pause.
And I believe with everything in me that the most loving thing I can do for anyone, including you, is tell them the truth about who Jesus is and what he offers, even when that truth is costly. The statement landed in the space between them like a gauntlet thrown down, not in aggression, but in invitation.
Anderson stared at his guest for a long moment. Something shifting in his expression that suggested the interview had stopped being merely professional and become something far more personal. His next question would determine whether this conversation became another culture war skirmish or transformed into something neither man had anticipated. Anderson set down the papers he had been holding.
A gesture that signaled departure from his prepared questions. The professional framework that had governed thousands of interviews was dissolving, replaced by something raarer and more dangerous. Let me tell you something I have never shared on air before.
His voice dropped into a register that 18 million viewers had rarely heard from the famously composed journalist. When I was young, my mother took us to church every Sunday. I believed everything they taught. Heaven, hell, salvation, all of it. I prayed every night and genuinely thought God was listening. He paused. The memory clearly painful despite decades of distance. Then I realized I was gay.
And suddenly, the God I had trusted became my enemy. The church that had been my home became a place where people like me were described as abominations. I watched my faith die piece by piece as I understood that the love they preached had conditions I could never meet. The confession transformed the interview into something else entirely. This was no longer journalism. This was testimony.
One man’s wound exposed under studio lights for reasons that even Anderson might not fully understand. Jonathan listened with an expression that carried neither judgment nor pity. Simply the focused attention of someone bearing witness to pain that deserved acknowledgement. I am sorry that happened to you. The words came without hesitation or qualification.
Genuinely deeply sorry. The church should have been a place of refuge for a young man wrestling with his identity, not a courtroom pronouncing condemnation. Anderson’s eyes glistened unexpectedly, emotion breaking through defenses built over decades of public performance. He blinked rapidly, struggling to maintain composure, and yet here you are telling me that those churches were right, that who I am is disordered, sinful, something to be overcome rather than embraced. Jonathan shook his head slowly. I am not telling you that who
you are is disordered. I am telling you that all of us have desires that pull us away from God’s design and all of us face the choice of whether to surrender those desires to him or demand that he accommodate them. Your struggle is not unique. It is human. My struggle, Anderson’s voice rose. The professional mask slipping further.
You keep using that word like being gay is a disease I am fighting rather than an identity I have accepted. I am not struggling with anything. Jonathan, I am living my life honestly and openly after years of shame imposed by people who claimed to speak for God.
The exchange had accelerated beyond anything the producers had anticipated. In the control room, executives exchanged alarmed glances, uncertain whether to intervene or let the confrontation play out. The ratings were climbing with every passing moment. Controversy translating to attention in the unforgiving economy of cable news. Jonathan remained still in his chair, absorbing the anger without returning it. I hear you, Anderson. I hear the pain underneath the words.
and I want you to understand that nothing I have said tonight comes from a place of contempt or superiority. He leaned forward, closing the distance between them in a gesture that felt almost pastoral. I do not think I am better than you. I do not think my sins are less serious than anyone else’s. The only difference between us is that I have encountered a Jesus who loves me too much to leave me as I am.
He challenges me to grow, to change, to become more like him, even when that process is painful and slow. Anderson laughed. But it carried bitterness rather than humor. How convenient. Your sins get to be invisible. Struggles with pride or anger. Things everyone can relate to. My sin is written on my identity for the world to see and judge. The accusation struck at something real.
the disparity between hidden failures and visible differences that had made LGBTQ individuals particular targets throughout Christian history. Jonathan recognized the injustice without knowing how to fully resolve it in the confines of a television interview.
You are right that there has been a double standard and it has been cruel and hypocritical. His admission surprised Anderson visibly. Churches have fixated on sexual sins while ignoring gluttony, greed, gossip, and a thousand other failures that scripture condemns equally. That selectivity has caused tremendous harm, and I repent of any part I have played in perpetuating it.” But then he continued, his voice strengthening.
However, the solution to selective judgment is not abandoning judgment altogether. It is applying the standard consistently to everyone starting with ourselves. Jesus said to remove the log from your own eye before addressing the speck in your brothers. He did not say specks do not matter. He said start with yourself. Anderson shook his head. Frustration mounting.
You keep circling back to scripture as if it settles every question. But the Bible has been used to defend slavery. subjugate women, justify genocide. Why should I accept its authority on sexuality when it has been so catastrophically wrong about so many other things? Because Jesus is not the Bible. He is a person. Jonathan’s response came with unexpected intensity.
Scripture is the primary way we know him. But it is not a rulebook to be applied mechanically. It is a revelation to be understood through relationship with the living God who inspired it. The people who used the Bible to defend slavery were not reading it faithfully.
They were weaponizing fragments while ignoring the whole. And the people who read it to condemn gay relationships, are they reading it faithfully? I believe they are reading it accurately on that specific question. Yes. Jonathan held Anderson’s gaze without flinching. The biblical witness on sexuality is remarkably consistent from Genesis through Revelation. This is not a matter of isolated proof texts.
It is the unified testimony of scripture about God’s design for human flourishing. Anderson stood abruptly, a move that startled everyone in the studio. He paced behind his desk, running a hand through silver hair, visibly wrestling with emotions he had not expected to confront on live television. Do you know what this feels like from my side? His voice cracked slightly on the question.
It feels like I am sitting across from someone who claims to love me while telling me that the most important relationship of my life, my son, my partner, my family is fundamentally disordered. How is that love? The question hung in the studio like a verdict waiting to be pronounced. Jonathan rose slowly from his own chair. matching Anderson’s physical movement in a gesture of equality rather than submission.
What he said next would be replayed millions of times. Analyzed by theologians and talk show hosts alike, embraced by some as the perfect articulation of Christian conviction and rejected by others as sophisticated bigotry dressed in compassionate language. But in that moment, standing across from a man whose pain was palpable and whose questions deserved more than defensive talking points, Jonathan spoke the words that would define this night and everything that followed.
I can love you and disagree with you. That is what Jesus did. The 11 words landed in the silence with the force of a detonation. Anderson froze midpace. His expression caught between offense and something far more complex. The cameras captured everything, broadcasting to 18 million homes, a moment that refused easy categorization.
The control room erupted into chaos the moment the words left Jonathan’s mouth. Producers shouted conflicting instructions into headsets while executives scrambled to assess whether the network was witnessing a career-defining moment or a public relations catastrophe. The ratings tracker showed numbers climbing at a pace none of them had seen in years.
Controversy converting to attention with ruthless efficiency. On the studio floor, Anderson remained frozen in the position Jonathan’s statement had caught him. One hand still raised mid gesture, his expression cycling through responses faster than the cameras could capture.
disbelief, recognition, something that might have been anger or might have been grief, perhaps both simultaneously. That is a beautiful sentence. Anderson’s voice came out horsearo, stripped of its usual polish. It would make a lovely greeting card, but it does not mean anything when your disagreement actively harms people like me. Jonathan did not retreat.
Jesus disagreed with the Pharisees about their hypocrisy. He disagreed with the money changers about corrupting his father’s house. He disagreed with his own disciples about their ambition and cowardice. Disagreement was central to his ministry. But so was love that never wavered regardless of whether people accepted his teaching.
Anderson returned to his chair slowly. The fight draining from his posture, but replaced by something more complicated. He studied Jonathan for a long moment, reassessing the man he had perhaps too quickly categorized. You really believe this? Do you not? The question carried wonder rather than accusation. This is not political posturing or cultural signaling.
You actually think you are loving me while holding positions I find deeply offensive. I know I am loving you. Jonathan’s voice softened but lost none of its conviction. Because love is not defined by agreement. It is defined by commitment to someone’s genuine good regardless of whether they appreciate your concern.
A parent who tells their child not to touch the hot stove is not being hateful. They are being loving in a way the child might not understand until much later. Anderson shook his head, but the gesture carried weariness rather than rejection. The comparison does not hold. Touching a hot stove causes obvious immediate harm. My relationship with my partner causes harm to no one. We are raising a son together. We pay our taxes.
Contribute to our community. Love each other faithfully. Where is the damage that justifies your concern? The question cut to the heart of the contemporary divide. the fundamental disagreement about whether harm was defined by visible consequences or invisible spiritual realities.
Jonathan recognized that no answer he could give would satisfy someone who did not share his premises. Anderson, I cannot prove to you in 30 minutes that the biblical vision of sexuality leads to human flourishing while alternatives lead elsewhere. Jonathan’s tone carried humility rather than defensiveness. What I can tell you is that I did not arrive at my beliefs because I wanted to exclude anyone.
I arrived at them because I became convinced that Jesus is who he claimed to be. And that conviction carries implications I did not choose and sometimes wish were different. The admission surprised Anderson visibly. You wish your beliefs were different. Sometimes yes. Jonathan exhaled slowly. It would be easier to affirm what the culture affirms, to receive applause instead of condemnation, to be welcomed in spaces that now consider me a bigot.
But I cannot pretend to believe something I do not believe. And I cannot pretend that scripture says something it does not say. The cost of faithfulness is real. But I have decided that truth matters more than comfort. The studio had grown impossibly quiet. Crew members who normally bustled with activity stood motionless, drawn into a conversation that had transcended the usual parameters of cable news programming. Something was happening that none of them had witnessed before.
An exchange that refused to follow the script of mutual condemnation both sides had learned to expect. Anderson leaned forward, his voice dropping into the register he used for his most personal moments on air. Let me ask you something directly and I want an honest answer.
If your son came to you and told you he was gay, what would you do? The hypothetical cut deep, invoking the most primal of human relationships to test the limits of Jonathan’s convictions. He took a breath before responding. I would hold him and tell him I loved him. The answer came without hesitation. I would thank him for trusting me with something so personal, I would listen to his story and try to understand his experience.
And then over time in the context of that relationship and that love, I would share what I believe scripture teaches about sexuality and invite him to wrestle with those passages alongside me. And if he rejected your beliefs, if he chose to live openly as a gay man, then I would continue loving him exactly the same. Jonathan’s eyes glistened with emotion he did not try to hide.
I would attend his graduations, celebrate his achievements, welcome him home for every holiday. I would never withdraw from his life or treat him as less than the precious child God gave me.” Anderson pressed harder. Even if he married a man, even then I would not officiate the wedding. And I would be honest about why, but I would not abandon my son ever for any reason because that is not what Jesus does with us when we make choices he grieavves over.
The answer demolished the caricature that Anderson had carried into this interview. the image of religious conservatives as heartless enforcers of rigid doctrine who prioritized rules over relationships. Jonathan was offering something far more nuanced, a framework that held conviction and compassion in tension without sacrificing either.
Anderson sat back, visibly processing. In the control room, producers exchanged glances that mixed relief with uncertainty. The interview had avoided disaster but arrived somewhere none of them knew how to categorize. We need to go to break. Anderson finally said, his voice rough with unnamed emotion. When we come back, I want to ask about something else.
He paused, seeming to debate whether to continue. I want to ask what you think happens to people like me when we die. The question hung in the air as the cameras cut to commercial. Jonathan nodded slowly, understanding that the conversation had shifted into territory even more dangerous than what they had already traversed.
During the break, neither man spoke. Anderson stared at his notes without reading them. Jonathan closed his eyes in what was clearly prayer. The crew moved around them in silence, sensing that something significant had occurred and something more significant was coming. When the floor director began the countdown to resume live broadcasting, both men straightened in their chairs.
Whatever personal moment had passed between them during the commercial would now give way to questions that had haunted humanity since the first person wondered what lay beyond the grave. The red light blinked on and 18 million viewers leaned closer to their screens.
Anderson’s voice carried a vulnerability that decades of broadcasting had trained him to conceal. Before the break, I asked what you think happens to people like me when we die. I want you to answer honestly. No theological hedging, no diplomatic evasions. Just tell me what you believe. The questions stripped away every layer of professional distance that had governed the conversation.
This was not journalism anymore. This was one human being asking another about the fate of his eternal soul. Jonathan met his gaze with an expression that carried neither condemnation nor false comfort. I believe that heaven and hell are real and that our eternal destination depends on our relationship with Jesus Christ. He paused choosing his next words with extraordinary care.
I also believe that only God knows the true state of any human heart. I am not qualified to pronounce judgment on where anyone will spend eternity. That sounds like hedging to me. Anderson’s voice carried an edge. Do you believe gay people go to hell or not? I believe people who reject Jesus Christ spend eternity separated from him. Jonathan’s response came with painful honesty.
That includes straight people who live moral lives by worldly standards but never surrender to his lordship. And it includes religious people who attend church every Sunday but have never truly known him. Sexual orientation is not the determining factor. Relationship with Jesus is Anderson leaned back processing the distinction.
So in your framework, I could be a faithful gay man in a loving relationship and still go to heaven if I believe in Jesus. If your faith is genuine, if you have truly surrendered your life to Christ as Lord, then that relationship transforms everything about how you live, including your sexuality. Jonathan’s voice softened but did not waver.
The question is not whether you can add Jesus to your existing life unchanged. The question is whether you are willing to let him change everything, even the parts you most want to protect. The implications settled over the studio like a weight that neither man could lift alone. Anderson stared at his guest for a long moment. Something shifting in his expression that the cameras captured but could not interpret.
You genuinely believe you are trying to save me. The words came out almost wonderingly. This is not political for you. You actually think my soul is at stake. I do. Jonathan’s eyes glistened with emotion. He no longer tried to hide. And I know how arrogant that sounds to you. I know you think I have been brainwashed by ancient mythology.
But Anderson, if I am right, if Jesus is who he claimed to be, then the most loving thing I can do is tell you the truth regardless of how it makes me look. Anderson stood slowly, extending his hand across the desk in a gesture that surprised everyone watching. Jonathan rose to meet him. Their handshake lasting longer than professional courtesy required.
I do not agree with you. Anderson’s voice carried something it had not held at the beginning of this interview. Respect without surrender. Acknowledgement without acceptance. But I believe you mean what you say. And that is more than I can say for most religious people I have encountered. The interview ended there. Both men understanding that nothing more could be accomplished in this format.
Whatever seeds had been planted would require time and private reflection to germinate into something meaningful. The aftermath exploded across every platform within minutes. The clip of Jonathan’s central statement spread faster than anything CNN had broadcast in years. I can love you and disagree with you. That is what Jesus did.
11 words that somehow captured the tension between conviction and compassion that had defined the entire conversation. Reactions split along predictable lines that quickly dissolved into something more complex. Conservative Christians who expected Jonathan to deliver condemnation found themselves moved by his tenderness. Progressive critics who anticipated easy dismissal encountered arguments they could not simply wave away.
The cultural machinery that depended on clear villains and heroes found itself confronted with a conversation that refused such categories. Three weeks after the broadcast, Jonathan received a letter that would stay with him for the rest of his life.
It came from a 17-year-old named David who had watched the interview alone in his bedroom in suburban Minnesota. David had been planning to come out to his conservative Christian parents the following weekend. terrified that their reaction would match the rejection he had witnessed in so many other families. Instead, he watched Jonathan articulate a faith that held truth and love together without sacrificing either.
He watched Anderson receive that message without converting, but also without dismissing. And something in that exchange gave him hope that a different kind of conversation was possible. I showed my parents the interview before I told them. David wrote, “We watched it together and then we talked for three hours. They cried. I cried.
They told me they loved me and that nothing would ever change that. They also told me they could not affirm what they believed. Scripture prohibited.” But they said it the way Jonathan said it, with tears instead of anger, with questions instead of lectures. David’s letter continued with updates over the following months.
His parents had started attending a support group for families navigating faith and sexuality. They did not have answers, but they were seeking them together rather than fracturing apart. The conversation that had seemed impossible became the foundation for a relationship deeper than any of them had known before. More letters followed, thousands of them from every corner of the country and beyond.
parents who had rejected their children and were now seeking reconciliation. Young people who had abandoned faith entirely and were reconsidering whether Christianity might offer something more than the caricature they had encountered. Churches that were rethinking how they approached LGBTQ individuals in their midst.
Anderson Cooper never publicly changed his position on faith or sexuality, but sources close to him reported that he had started reading the Gospels again for the first time in decades. Not to critique, but to understand. What he would ultimately conclude remained his own journey to walk. Jonathan returned to his modest apartment in Los Angeles.
to the crucifix on the wall and the photograph of his father and the stacks of letters from people whose lives had been touched by a conversation that refused to follow the expected script. He had lost opportunities because of that night, networks that would no longer invite him, audiences that had turned hostile. But he had gained something worth more than any platform could provide.
He had spoken truth with love, and love had carried the truth further than condemnation ever could. The cost of faithfulness remained real. The questions remained unresolved. The tension between conviction and compassion would continue to challenge everyone who took both seriously. But somewhere in Minnesota, a family was learning to hold those tensions together.
Somewhere in Manhattan, a journalist was reading words he had dismissed for decades. And somewhere in the great mystery of human hearts, seeds were growing that only time and grace could bring to harvest. That was enough. That would always be enough. Thank you for following this story. Let us know in the comments below.
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